Autistic people mostly have difficulty in social communication due to differences in their brain structure. However, that should not be a barrier preventing them from connecting with society. If you have a family member, a friend, a colleague, or you randomly meet an autistic, and you want to communicate with them, it is important to do it right and effectively. Here are some of the tips to communicate effectively with an autistic person:

Before starting the conversation:

• Use their name to let them know that you’re talking to them

• To start a conversation, use their name to let them know you’re talking to them and get their attention. Avoid calling their name too loud because some autistic people are sensitive to loud noise which may trigger to them.

During the conversation:

• An autistic person might find it difficult to process information, so before trying to say something, make sure you know what you want to tell them and focus on it.

• Speak slow and precise, pause at each phrase and use simple words.

• Use simple words and phrases. Identify some keywords, repeat and stress them.

• Avoid using much non-verbal communication (such as eye contact, body language..) as you might distract them from listening to the information.

• Use visual support to help deliver the information clearly.

Be an active listener:

• Take your time to listen to the person you are talking to. This is not just about respect but also showing that you care and want to support the other person. Ask more questions to clarify the information if you don’t understand what they’re saying. If you’re unsure you hear it right, repeat what you thought you heard and ask if it’s correct. Remember, try to avoid open questions, use “yes” and “no” questions or offer choices (but not too many choices).

References:

Communication tips – Communication – Advice and guidance. National Autistic Society (August 2020). https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/communication/tips

Tips for Talking to Adults on the Autism Spectrum. By Margaret Walsh, M.A., BCBA. MayInstitute. https://www.mayinstitute.org/news/acl/asd-and-dd-adult-focused/tips-for-talking-to-adults-on-the-autism-spectrum/